Too Much Loss

Sep. 16th, 2025 01:47 am
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I don't know, man. 2025 needs to just go screw itself somewhere and die. Not only did we lose my Dad, we lost one of the very first neighbors we ever had. No, not Dad's best friend Jim. This one was the one that lived caddy corner from us. She died suddenly this past weekend. Mom asked me if I was going to go to her celebration of life. Now I'd love to, but I'm not sure I can handle it. I'll be honest. I just barely handled Dad's. The timing isn't great for me, either. The celebration of life is the day before what would've been Fred's 46th birthday. It's bad enough that Mom and I won't be together and on what would have been Dad's 71st. It's his first birthday after passing, and I hate it. I will be dog sitting for Brandy and Stella.

Barb and Tom do feel horrible about the timing. But they schedule these cruises a year in advance. No one knew Dad was going to die. So of course I'm not mad at them either. Just the timing.

I just can't believe the sheer amount of loss both in my immediate vicinity, and in the celebrity world. It's been so depressing.

But this is why I am so glad I have my fandoms to fall back on. Outside of faith, they've been a real blessing. In particular this year the Tokatsu fandom has been my thing. It's really a strange thing, honestly. I went from someone who wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole to someone who is willing to try the sentai counter parts of her favorite Ranger seasons. And not only that? Kamen Rider is in the mix now. I had avoided Kamen Rider for a long time. Not because I wasn't interested (I lowkey have been ever since I found out that Masked Rider from the 90s was adapted from one of the series). But I wanted to find a way to connect with Fred's brother on a more personal level. Fred and I had so many things. I wanted something for me and Jon to share. Jonathan (side note: I can't see the name Jon, or Jonathan, without thinking about Jonathan Roba. I don't think they're ever gonna leave me alone!) suggested Kamen Rider Zero One. He didn't give me a good reason why. Just said, "this one is on Tubi. Try it." I did try it, but it wasn't on Tubi. I'd already subscribed to Shout TV! for access to more of the Sentai series. A handful of Kamen Rider series are already on that platform as well. (DOes anyone else wish Shout Factory hadn't given up on the Tokatsu releases? It would've been awesome to get Magiranger, Go-Onger and Gokaiger on official DVDs instead of having to download and make my own).

What's ensued is an increased obsession with a fictional cyber terrorist. Jin has had me smitten from the beginning. The fact is, Jin, towards the end of his first life, was beginning to think for himself, and see that The Ark's mission was wrong. Damned Horobi corrupting his data. Thanks to doing heavy research for Shane (my RP bestie in my PanFandom RP) I did find out how he ends, and I'm actually kinda satisfied with it. I won't post it here. I know the series is old, but there are still people discovering as I have been. Don't want to spoil the experience. Jin has a nickname from me, too. I often call him "My precious little psycho".

Not one person who knows my track record for adopting/liking bad guys was surprised about this. Hell, I even adopted Basco and he was very sadistic.

Anyway, these little things are what is helping me the most this month.

DtCA 2025

Sep. 15th, 2025 07:13 pm
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Hi all,

Sign-ups for the Down the Chimney Affair (DtCA), the Man from UNCLE (tv) fandom's annual fanfic gift exchange are now open and will remain so until October 13!

Sign ups close Oct 13, stories due Dec 15 for anonymous publication on Dec 25, author IDs revealed on New Year's Day.

Hope you will join us!

Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.


September EMP Meme

Sep. 14th, 2025 12:52 am
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Put an ad up with the characters / crew / pairings / kink you want for your game under the correct game header. This meme is primarily going to be focused on DWRP games but IJ and LJ games are allowed.

PLEASE NOTE A RULE CHANGE HERE. ABSOLUTELY NO obnoxious coding (no font size > size 4 or 3 "big" tags, no oversized banners (they must be 250px in height or less), no blinking text, no obnoxious table html that doesn't collapse easily, no fonts and other html that make ads super long, no sparklies, no large pictures). Use all the colors you like, but please remember 3 "big" tags is the limit and that's only for headers or title text rather than for all the text in an ad.

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RPers interested in a game can create a header for the game and ask questions about that game that aren't easy to find on faqs, such as the actual pace vs. what's listed/what kind of plots are run/if the game leans more towards plotty or slice of life/if a game leans more towards network or logs, etc. Both anon questions and anon answers are welcome in this section just like in the rest of the meme.

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Put up an ad about the characters you are offering. For PSL ads, there is a separate subthread but for character ads for games, post directly to the meme post. Others will comment to you with the games/casts they want you to join.

There is a "Find a Castmate" section, where you can talk about a cast you play in at a game, and try to lure people to join it. Not all games post to the meme or have a "wanted" section, so players that want to tempt people to their cast on their own can use this section for it. Please format this the same as the PSL section, where you post your character's canon in your subject. For the actual text of the ad you must use the "Find a Castmate" form provided at the bottom of this post so that these ads don't get huge. When listing who's currently in a cast, please do this in sentence form (with commas) rather than in list form.

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Examples of crosscanon you can search for: You play The Flash from DC Comics and your dream CR is fellow speedster Quicksilver from Marvel. Or you might play a witch and want cr with other witches in general. Or maybe you play a good character messed up by evil parents and want to play against a villain character you know has evil parents, because you know it'd lead to some interesting negative CR.

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If you're recommending a game to someone, try to match your suggestion to their needs. It's okay if part of your game rec is copy-pasted (such as what the game's about), but at least some part of the rec must be personalized to their ad. Try not to recommend the same game to every single ad, either. Ad spam that isn't individualized in some way will also be frozen or screened. Keep in mind this needs to be more specific than "this game has easy AC like you're asking for but meets none of your other requirements." Make sure you're advertising games that might click with that specific character, where a few elements fit what they're looking for. You should be thinking about the story reasons of how the character might click with the game.

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